The warrior's guide to survival

Hello honey, The summer has been fantastic, lazy days and trips out together. We now have a tandem attachment for the bikes and so we load them onto the car and go out together to find places to cycle. You are never bored and always so happy, you are extra sunshine to my summer days.  I always did love to hang out with you and you are such great company.  You are the kindest, most compassionate, understanding and non judgemental person I have ever met.  Your love is so pure and selfless that it just bowls me over.  Your future partner, if you decide to find one, is going to be the luckiest lady/man in the world.  Or you may choose to be single, and that is OK too. There is not a day goes by when I don't receive complements from you, about what a great mum I am or how beautiful you see me to be.  If you have sweets, you always share them and most times give me your last and first one.  You are the best, you are perfect inside and out.  From your little mirror-of-mine-but-better

Dear honey bunny I've not written to you for oh - ever-so long.  I found out that your biological dad Darren (BDD) is cyber stalking me badly and  it's made me not want to talk.  It's been so traumatic and I've been poorly for many months now and although I am well again now, BDD's malice hangs around my online activity like a rotten odour. You my love though, remain to be unflappably happy throughout, my ray of sunshine.  You are the kindest, most supportive, non-judgemental, down to earth person that I have ever met, and I have met a lot of people in my life.  You are suffering a bit too though through BDD's actions, and we have to move house again which is upsetting for both of us.  You are really settled in the village and have friends here and are doing brilliantly at school.  It's with a heavy heart that I have to move us but BDD is intent on stalking me and making threats so we have to go, for our own safety and security.  It shadows my days.  Yo